Archive - So, I've Been Thinking...

Why I bring a sandwich to a fight

and other relationship advice I wish I'd known years ago

Mar 2

January 2025

The one resolution few people will set in 2025

Counter cultural? Yes. Essential? Also yes.

Jan 12

September 2023

a reflection on events, invitations and flake culture.

Sep 24, 2023

May 2023

What do you worship?

Whether it's God or the gym, we all worship something.

May 10, 2023

February 2023

A small thought on...Apologies

Why you're receiving apologies wrong, and why it matters.

Feb 3, 2023

December 2022

Tis' the season to... question cultural scripts

How we made Christmas less stressful.

Dec 24, 2022

November 2022

What's in a (sur)name?

Why we leave, take or hyphenate...and what it means

Nov 8, 2022

September 2022

‘I Didn’t Feel Like Going, But I’m Glad I Did’

A story of my social life.

Sep 3, 2022

July 2022

The problem with invisible pain

Slipped disks and holding space.

Jul 16, 2022

May 2022

Why we need to rethink expectations around digital communication

May 23, 2022

March 2022

We should start a commune

The intoxicating dream of doing life together

Mar 15, 2022

February 2022

A disastrous day, saved by Deconstructionism

How to live happier according to a French philosopher.

Feb 18, 2022

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